Single parent and dating feelings
Become that person and you’ll attract that person as well.
Lasting love is real, but it takes a real self-aware person to be a worthy partner.
I’m pretty sure even if we did meet, you wouldn’t like me all that much right now. So don’t spend any more time thinking about where I am or am not.
I don’t know how to create the feeling of home that lives in my heart. Or even myself — I’m still figuring out who that is.
Really the question is what is wrong with your or at least your presentation of yourself? I'll Do Anything, there are plenty of you out there. Any dominant woman that responds to your email is apt to be a beginner. But there are pure masochists and sadists who only giggle at words like slave and Mistress. You'll need to make sure you approach women whose desires complement yours.
Within a month promises of being willing to do anything will only prove to her that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Use Yahoo Geocities or similar service and create a simple web page. If you aren't able to write discursively and personally put up a simple slave's checklist.
------------------------------------- If you liked this post, you'll definitely like my book, Beyond the Breakup.
If the girl gets attached in the process, it just means the breakup will be messier. Yes, the initial thrill of a new relationship is exciting, but each time that excitement grows less and less because you grow accustomed to it.
Even when a man does get emotionally invested, it usually occurs more slowly and to a lesser degree. If the countless e-mails I get from readers, or my female friends' stories and my own experience are any indication, you know what I am talking about. You gradually throw away the innocence that allows for deep emotional attachment to a single partner, in exchange for a series of brief, shallower attachments that cause you to raise your defenses against something permanent.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. But the ridiculousness of my situation was embarrassingly obvious in the very instant he asked the question.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. I knew that - in light of my certainty - my relationship with her was pointless.