Dating sleeping together too soon

What we share is mostly hovering in cyberspace so that when we do get together there is not much left to say. It is how this generation communicates, through sex.

To many a man sex is a game where he feels he has scored.

They find it liberating that intimacy doesn't have to be wrapped up with commitment.

To be able to walk away after having had sex, without even a backward glance is the new norm.

Love and trust had to be built before couples would consummate their relationship. We get into any relationship at the slightest attraction and step away the minute we get bored, in a rush to find greener pastures.

We can feel nostalgic for the romance and courtship of bygone days but know well that those times are behind us. A world where instant gratification is the new norm, and experimenting with sex with no strings attached is accepted as part of the dating game. Fading decorum around courting, and online dating apps among other things, are being blamed.

He needs to win and feel like a man through consistent intercourse.

Not just the physical but also the emotional boundaries that come with sexual territory.Added to that is overwhelm of technology that prevails, so much so that we have become a generation with few communication skills.Our lives exist in the ether realm of Skype, Snapchat, and texts.It is therefore, to these men and women we address this question: How soon is too soon to have sex? Baby boomers are far more likely to wait to have sex than young daters because having gone thru the sexual revolution, with maturity they realize there are emotional consequences for getting involved in a sexual relationship.However they play by far different rules than young 20-something daters.

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